My 9 year old female spayed orange tabby has suddenly started to leave me "poopagrams" if she doesn't get what she wants when she wants it. She might do it if I fail to give her a hot water massage when she wants it or if we have company & she cannot get under the bed in the guestroom or if at any time, she can see a bare spot in her food bowl or only crumbs left in the food bowl. We have had her for four years & she just started doing this about a month or so ago. She can also make herself barf if she cannot manage a poopagram. She leaves the "poopagrams" where we will be sure to see them such as in the middle of the room & then she hides under the bed & will not come out because she is either ashamed or afraid.
She does love to be petted & brushed but you cannot hold her & she will never get on your lap. Sweetie is timid & always has been antisocial. I am quite sure her health is good & she definately does not have worms. What can we do? Are there any drugs that might help her?

Sweetie's Mother

What can we do? Are there any drugs that might help.