I think my cat is in labor. she hasn't eaten much today or yesterday. (even less than usual). Why are the most important things to know. I've never had a cat get pregnant(I'M 20) and if anything happensto my cat i'm have a heartattack. Also i want to weigh and know the sex of the kittens to ensure their health. Can I touch the kittens. Me and my cat are very close and have been since day, one over a year ago. She sleeps on me. she even sleeps in front of my bedroom door until I come out in the morning. Do u think were close enough for me to touch them and not have the kitten abandoned by their mom