If you have one near, I'd make an appointment with the groomer. There they can give her a bath, keep that little area clean for her. Also, that makes them the bad guy, not you. If you set standing appointments with the groomer, the stress of going should lessen for her and become routine. Usuaslly too, if you become a regular, it's been my experience, the price sometime goes down a little.
Medical emergencies should been seen by a Veterinarian immediately.
If I've been helpful, please click the GREEN ACCEPT button in the right corner. For more information, please click REPLY.
Bonuses & feedback are greatly appreciated :)