Dear Tom,
You are very welcome.
Even if Barnaby tested negative a few months age he still could hav had AIDS or FELV in his system.I don't think he got sick from, his limited exposure to Mickey. I sincerely believe your neighbor cast him out because she found out or suspected he was already sick.
As far as the other cats - they are grieving. Most people don't know how very sensitive cats are - and intuitive too. Not only are they upset that Barnaby is gone - they sense your wifes overwhelmng saddness. That is stressing them out as well. When you and she feel better, they will too. You just have to give them some time to get over this.
The more you tell me about dear Barnaby - the more I believe that he was one of Gods angels. He made a brief vist to earth to teach you about love and enrich your lives - but he was not meant to stay. I know this because I too had an angel cat in my life that only stayed for a short time. Her name was Honey and her brief visit added a new direction to my life. It was then that I decided to go into medicine and help as many cats as I could.
I know you will never forget Barnaby - just as I will never forget Honey. He has made a permanent and lasting impact on your lives and he will live forever in your heart.
At this point, I would just give the others some time. I would not stress them further with any testing or medications, etc.
Barnaby will live forever in their hearts too. The love that you had for him will always remain permanently etched into all your hearts and souls.
If there is anything I can ever say or do to help you feel better, please do not ever hesitate to contact me.
With utmost sincerity,
Terri
Dedicated to Cats and the people who love them!
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