This does sound like a urinary tract infection but there is no OTC or herbal remedy for this. Your kitty needs to be put on a antibiotic by your veterinarian. The good news is that the antibiotic that is normally used is relatively inexpensive. A UTI will not get better on its own. There is also a chance that your cat has formed crystals in her bladder which is blocking the way to relieve herself. This is normally found in male cats, but it is not unheard of. If this is true for your kitty, it can usually be controled by diet and possibly medication also. Try to get a urine sample and give your vet a call. I am sorry that there is no other solution. Good luck with your kitty and i hope she feels better very soon :)
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